Be Sexy, Not Sl*tty

I’m sure most of the fashionistas out there already know how to dress up sexily without looking, you know……But it just gets me why they are still those who think that to reveal more is good. For example, pairing a pair of hot pants with a bareback top. Ok, we know you have a sexy butt but do you need to show more than you should. I was at a café and saw this one young lady who was wearing that kind of outfit. I don’t wanna judge her character based on her outfit but I wish she’s not trying too hard to show that she’s sexy. Then at the same café, I saw another young lady who’s also wearing a pair of short denim but paired with what seemed to be an off the shoulder pullover. It didn’t reveal too much of her shoulder. But she just looked so sexy. Well, not to mention she has a gorgeous body and beautiful face too.
For me, sexy is not about revealing too much flesh, but it’s being confident in your own skin. A woman can wear a pair of jeans with a T.Shirt and still looks sexy if she wears them with confidence. Of course, having a nice body would be a bonus. Even guys have their views on what sexiness is. There was this girl who was wearing a pair of jeans and a not so body-hugging blouse. But her guy friends who saw her thought she looked sexy in her outfit. Why is that? Ok, that girl is yours truly actually. I’m not trying to brag or anything but it just surprised me that I wasn’t wearing anything revealing but they still thought I looked sexy. I think it’s a nice compliment. It was then that I know being sexy it’s not about wearing revealing clothes but it’s about being confident and comfortable in what you wear and how you carry yourself. As cliché as it sounds, it’s true. I think Jessica Alba exudes the healthy sexiness. She always looks so sexy even when she’s not on the red carpet. She looks sexy even when she’s not wearing a bikini. She’s just…naturally sexy. What I like about her too, she’s really down-to-earth. Confident without being arrogant.
How to look sexy without looking sl*tty? When you plan to wear something revealing, make sure it only reveals one part of your body. To reveal more might make you look that you’re trying too hard. A pair of stilettos could also complement a sexy look. On top of it all, take your confidence with you every where you go.